How to handle love bombing texts from a narcissist trying to hoover you back?
Narcissists don’t like loss. Unless of course it’s on their terms. In many cases even long after a breakup, they still linger, trying all sorts of things to get attention and even reboot the relationship.
Their communications can range from annoying to all-out infuriating. Straight talk doesn’t seem to get to them. Sometimes a whole strategy is needed to dial down the communication before they finally go away.
A woman left this question under one of my YouTube videos:
How do I reply when my ex narcissist writes things like: “I love you! You are the love of my life! I want to grow old with you and can’t imagine ever being with another.” What can I do to make him leave me alone? I know I could just ignore it but I’m still listed on his lease so I have to remain in some sort of communication. What answers can get though to him to make him come down to earth? What works on these people? How do I deal with these provocations?
While this question comes from a woman and in general about 65% of the people who watch my channel are female, this problem touches all genders, all orientations and all races. In other words, the problem of narcissism is universal. Just wanted to say this before I go on.