How to Obliterate the Narcissist

The Shield, the Sword & the Invisibility Cloak…

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The Shield

One of the best ways to handle the narcissist is to not engage at all. But sometimes it is impossible. In such situations, I recommend practicing ‘deflection.’

The Sword

If you have any doubts whether this person giving you stomach cramps and head spins is a narcissist, try saying ‘no’ to them. This will act as the kryptonite to their measly power games and drop the mask for all to see.

The Cloak

The strongest and by far most effective boundary you can have with the narcissist is to limit or completely eliminate engagement. This is not always possible because some narcissists, especially the convert, charming types, can be difficult to identify right off the bat.

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